FAQ
Q: Doesn't a reader need to go through all the cards before a reading can end?
A: No. This is a misconception. I can get a wealth of information from the same 10 cards, 20 cards or 30 cards. I know when I need to turn over more cards and when not to. Sometimes turning over more cards doesn't mean that you will get more or different information. I've seen the same information being repeated over and over again every time I turn over more cards. If you trust and respect your reader, let them decide on the amount of cards needed for you.
Q: How do those that crossed over communicate to a reader?
A: Those that crossed over trying to get messages to the reader use fragmented information and symbolism they know the reader can interpret for them. They will also find a channel to get their message across. Sometimes they can get through a friend, family member or the reader you select. Trust me, it's no accident that you are getting the message from a reader you selected.
Q: How do you get the information?
A: I focus on the photograph or tarot cards, clear my mind and the information just presents itself. I am drawn to colors, symbols and other images that I can interpret. The information readers get is sometimes in fragments. We convey these fragments, or pieces of information to you so that you can put it together. The information doesn't mean anything to us, which is why it is easier for you to understand the information given. Other times, just the exercise of clearing my mind, I am given information as thoughts as if they were my own. Since I can differentiate my thoughts from messages, I know what to communicate to you. When I read it's a combination of both methods.
Q: I've had readings before and sometimes the predictions didn't happen. Why?
A: We all can exercise free will. Readers are not absolute and we are certainly not God. If a reader tells you that you will be offered a job over the next few months, you could change that outcome. You can decide to not look for a job. Or perhaps you were offered a job but turned it down. A reader sees your future on the day you get read. Free will can be a wonderful thing. I'm a strong believer in if it's meant to be, it will. There could also be delays in timing. It is difficult for a reader to pin point time.
Q: Once had a reader tell me I had a 'black cloud' around me, bad luck and unless I brought their 'special' $100 candles or handed over a great deal of money so they can pray for me, my life will always be bad. Is this true?
A: What makes their candles any more special than those you can purchase at a dollar store? Absolutely nothing. The readers who make these claims are normally very good readers and can hit on many accurate things about your life. They also prey on your emotions and want to profit from your fears and vulnerability. Not only should you not pay them for a reading, but you should report them to the authorities immediately. It's readers like them that give us good ones a bad name.
Q: Sometimes things don't happen in the timeframe a reader tells me, why?
A: Timing is extremely difficult to pin point. A reader sometimes knows it should have happened by now and there is a delay. Or a reader knows it will happen in a specified timeframe, and they will convey the approximate timeline, such as 6-12 weeks, 6-12 months, etc. Sometimes a reader will know "it will happen" but can't really tell when. Readers are conveyed the messages with help from our spirit guides. Spirit Guides are in a place where time is irrevelant.
Q: What if I don't want to know anything bad in my reading?
A: You should tell the person reading you at the beginning. A good reader will respect your boundaries and wishes. Unless I see something "bad" in your future that I know you can do something about to prevent it from happening, then I will omit that information. Before I start any reading, I ask my Spirit Guides to enable me to read for the highest good, positive, healing, only good spirits and if there is anything "bad" in their reading, to only tell me if it is something that can be prevented.
Q: What is a Spirit Guide?
A: One book that I would recommend reading if you want to know more about Spirit Communicatioin is "The Complete Idiot's Guide to Communicating with Spirits". There is an entire chapter on what a Spirit Guide is, what their function is, how they communicate to you and how helping you helps them. Since the explanation in the book would be better than my attempt, I have included excerpts to follow: Spirit guides are here to watch out for us, help us understand life lessons, and help us find joy and wonder as we journey through our earth plane existence. ......Whether or not you know it, your spirit guides are always with you. They communicate with you on a higher level. Some of the information they have to share is instruction, helping you to discover the learnings of your lessons in this life. .....A key concept with spirit guides is "guidance"........Spirit guides aren't with us to live our lives for us, or to keep us from making poor choices and mistakes. Spirit guides are extra resources for you to tap into.....They have expertise in areas that are important in your life, and come to offer guidance in those areas. Often, your spirit guides help you to move toward achieving your life's mission. Most people have multiple spirit guides, with different spirit guides taking the lead depending on what you're doing or what kind of help you need. You can ask your spirit guides for specific help, and you can choose to decline advice and suggestions. Just as you learn from your spirit guides, your spirit guides can learn from you. This helps them evolve on the higher side.
Q: Why can't I get the message from a deceased loved one?
A: You are being communicated to, but you are not recognizing the signs, coincidences, or you are interpreting the strange thoughts you are having as being your own. Those on the other side will get you the message, even if they have to go through someone else.